Married to visit, move man with enclosing and declaring defending ending 80 the next 5 years Play the part of the sissy contact man together
Visit, move man with enclosing and declaring defending ending 5 year
--One is married " After 80 " It is bitter and hot that the volunteer is hard
"I feel very lonely. But even if madam has known that wants to divorce me, do I or want to do "
" after 80 " Guangzhou youth little a soldier ' Assumed name) ,The ordinary staff member of investment company, he has an identity unknown by the people: Interfere man gay from ' Hereafter referred to as " The man is the same as " )Volunteer.
Before the 5 year, have the intersection of relevant speciality and background basically, little soldier taught oneself to depend on unworthily move at man with place that assemble single-handed all, attempt to advise the man is with paying attention to defending ending in the contact of sex. Over the past 5 years,it contact more than 30 person man altogether he with,express willingness a among them each orally to accept his suggestion.
Characteristic
The in-house method contacts men the same as
Play the part of sissily and wear the close-fitting underwear elbow and carry the beautiful small bag on the arm curved
Little soldier, the stature is stocky, wears simple clothes, a pair of thin frame glasses of shelf, speak urgently and lift the picture frame frequently, wipe the sweat oozed out on the nose.
Just because of this, it is very difficult for the reporter to link he and such a image together - -Wear the close-fitting underwear, the strong perfume taste for ladies floats on one's body, the elbow is carrying a small bag with beautiful style on the arm curved, sprain the hip and walk in the park by a wide margin with the model's catwalk. In fact, this is a little soldier, in order to attract the eyeball to be in-house with man and a set of methods to exposed to.
Before creating this set of methods by oneself, without professional knowledge completely he will only use the most direct method, leave to ask the passerby the A second third cube: "Are you ' the comrade '? I listen to so remakable as to speak for a long time, I wanted to know more homosexual things. " It is done that he thought a sincere persons who listened, will be with accepting the man. But this section of opening remarks, ones that were let him reap are all supercilious look and berate.
And it is " sissy " to play the part of And then, really have men with speaking with him voluntarily. The little soldier will tell them with smile: "I am a volunteer who convinces the gay by patient analysis. " Someone will think at the beginning " The volunteer " Mean " The volunteer offering free same sex service " ,The little soldier have to explain for quite a while, indicate oneself is not a gays. Though regular meeting it thinks into hes to be neuropathy, method this make the light soldier succeed in with putting up and having the words with some men really too.
Reason arises
It is the man to find the relative and
" Can't change the sex orientation, help them to be far away from HIV "
That impelled the little soldier to begin to contact man and colony is a scene being seen personally before 5 years - -
One day of 2004, the little soldier went to relative's home to play, pushed the room open, saw unexpectedly cousin and distantly related cousin were affectionate! He unexpected, think from one's own very much far man and crowd unexpectedly just around absolutely. Afterwards, he talks with two younger brothers separately. The cousin told him, liked the opposite sex in the past and but under failing in love and stimulating, felt same sex was more reliable. And the cousin is generous tell, oneself is the congenital gay.
"Unguarded man homosexuality is HIV high-risk group! The cousin is the graduate student who read medicine, why not understand this reason? " The little soldier asks in surprise.
"Our thing does not need you to manage. " Two younger brothers refute coldly.
Half a year later, the little soldier moves two younger brothers to disease and accuses of centre's measuring HIV virus. " I accompany you to check together, should have (HIV) Have together. " Three people's inspection result is negative fortunately. Hereafter, two younger brothers and he were painstaking and unknown. Can't try to persuade the younger brother " Turn round " ,Let the little soldier feel guilty very much. "If can't change their sex orientation, help them to be far away from HIV. " The little soldier reaches a decision.
Result
Contact more than 30 men together
" I let them scold, it is all right to scold any dirty word "
Over the past five years, and. So long as put up, he will propagate and defend ending to them, will remind them the man is the high-risk group that HIV will be infected with together, must do the relevant safeguard procedures well, and measure free regularly.
There are hes first man with,for one person M (assumed name)s light, workers of same sex man to catch drug addiction . Small M grabs the little soldier's mobile phone in the park, is caught in the act by the little soldier. It is it man after learning whether whether it is little M with after,give police him soldiers little, know two people.
In having a chat with the message of little M, network, the little soldier realizes man and a lot of happiness, anger, grief and joy unknown by the people, " but really have endangering the factor high of much infection HIV in their life " . The little soldier learns to teach small M selling now now while surfing the Net and consulting the materials. But after a while, he, until street meet light M again, the latter say cold in the face of the intersection of he and hospitable greeting: "I will not remember you. "
The little soldier says, the same as small M, the psychology with guarding of a lot of men, should make their trust, sometimes he wants to let one's own " Assimilate " At one o'clock, dress a little more neutral. As he says " Man and high-risk group who infect HIV " When, some man with can be excited, will point to the little soldier and let loose a stream of savage invective, " I let them scold, scold any all right dirty word, scold, OK, sit, come down, drink glasses of water, want, call, can also continue, call " . Usually in this case, the man losing the temper, with cooling down instead, would like to listen to the little soldier going on.
These years, only a man, with once saying to the little soldier, seemed to lose the interest to the same sex. In addition, other contact person are basically unwilling to accept to the advice of the little soldier. But the little soldier says, this " expresses orally " Have already made him more confident.
Determined
Would rather divorce too and do
" Hope very much the wife can understand and accept my method "
This year, the little soldier gets married. Madam who has loved each other for many years has been young for 4 years old for him, is a girl with very traditional thought, even think and sex worker's contact is " The non- clean thing " .
For many years, the little soldier has hidden it from parents, friend and man with associating. But his sometimes unusual dressing, in addition, return late frequently, these let family think him not " normal " very much . Not long ago, it is learnt that there are departments after distributing the free sheath, the little soldier set up horses the big box of neck two was hidden at home, and. Unexpectedly, sheath these find wife, she suspicion grows thickly immediately. The little soldier have to swear swearing: "I just help what the friend took, there is not a lover absolutely, do not believe you can follow me. " The wife also really followed it twice later, found he really gave the sheath to the friends of several men looking familiar, this is calculated over.
"I hope very much the wife can understand and accept my method, so is explaining the foreign volunteer and helping the same sex to her constantly
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