Is it that the health or is abnormal to long for the addiction psychology of things?
In every case appear in the media " The person who steals underwear " Report,people often call protagonists of their personages"hooligan " , " abnormal " , " neuropathy " Wait, it abhors intensity thus clearly. They, are bearing " psychopathology " under having optional state , " degenerate " Wait for the charge; They, stand " misunderstanding " in the treatment circulating repeatedly , ' feel guilty ', even ' since incomplete '.
True, " person who steals underwear " Behavior uneasy without being lasted people,even panic, however, " the persons who steals underwear" not every Should all be cast aside by people. In this colony, because most people suffer from " long for the thing addiction " Such behavioral one of this kind of disease. In order to know more clearly " Long for the thing addiction " ,Understand that " longs for the thing addiction " ,Prevent " long for the thing addiction " With treating " Long for the thing addiction " .
Case one: Love beauty like to be beautiful foot only, collect foot over ten thousand of picture
Open Xiao Cheng's computer, no matter desk-top picture or screen protection picture, are all women's feet. One, at the beginning, Xiao Cheng think oneself than general classmate's " different class " ,Others surf the Net like not watching the faces of beauty at it watch by picture,he but otherwise, he only likes seeing the beauty's foot. Dispose after the computer since family for him, Cheng pair collect " foot " Picture yes special interest. The accurate one says it is correctly " Women's foot " Full of interests.
In more than 2 years, have already collected as many as ten thousand pictures in Xiao Cheng's computer, contents of the picture are all women's feet. As the brothers around have spoken of the love successively, Xiao Cheng but finds that does not have a bit feeling to opposite sex's friend oneself, even more beautiful MM can not compare with the picture that oneself collects " Raise the eyes " .
"I do not know why like these pictures in this way, especially at the night in the dead of night, I look through watch picture these on the computer, I feel oneself to be very excited, afford to lie consciousness either while sleeping on the bed, then console oneself unconsciously. "
"Listen to one brother tell me the intersection of A and feeling of block some, I think I can produce such a feeling too while watching those pictures, it seems that that foot will tease the mind of touching me. "
The expert comments on: " long for the thing addiction " The patient or baby receives badly and amazingly in infancy
" long for the thing addiction " Or " long for thing into the addiction " ,Its mean the intersection of opposite sex and dead article or leave the causing excited behavior on target.
" long for the thing addiction " There are narrow sense and broad saying: Narrowly-defined love clothes, ornaments that an opposite sex wore and used in the intersection of thing and target addiction long for, such as women's underwear, pants, bra, scarf, silk socks; The broad target also includes some part of opposite sex's body, such as hair, hand, foot, buttock,etc.. Xiao Cheng in the case is the typical the latter, what he suffered from is to " long for the foot addiction " .
With Xiao Cheng's therapeutic deepening constantly, exchange with little Cheng's numerous talks through kinsfolks, doctor is their " Long for the thing addiction " Cause of disease target being here gradually their infant and pre-school children period.
While recalling the early experience of life, Xiao Cheng remembers studying in and always wearing the open-seat pants before the kindergarten by oneself indistinctly, and oneself very lovely, the open air play, make adults amuse always each time, the adults like bantering one's own chicken chicken with the foot very much.
About Xiao Cheng's memory, its mother verifies too: "It is the folkways and customs in that side of ours that the little boy wears the open-seat pants, wear the split pants even if it is very large, the busy farming season period adults always get together and have a rest, the old men like embracing the child to play too, I remembered that several women next door liked bantering Xiao Cheng very much at that time, because he looked fair and fat, very lovely, they always like making fun of he, touch his chicken chicken with the foot, then laugh at him. "
When brightness director says, as to the boy, especially 3- 5 years old, the adults should try hard to prevent any way from holding its genitals, because such a act will let little boy to be too early person who accept amazing often, then producing excitement. It may be a kind of interesting joke to adult, but to little boy, may bury hidden danger for for the future the intersection of and the intersection of partiality and obstacle its.
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