Is the sexual love always interrupted and influence sexual life

Is the sexual love always interrupted and influence sexual life
Q: I marry husband for 5 years, the child is a year old, is brought by husband's father and mother. Over this year, our sexual life is always interrupted, for example the child cries and screams in the evening, husband's father and mother do not sleep well, always get up at midnight. Will this have influence on our couple's life?
A: It is awkward that a lot of couple will meet the sexual life and is interrupted, except the child is noisy, also include the friend interferes with coming to visit, telephone. Though this is unlikely to cause the organic injury, will throw in the sex down the shade psychologically.
The sex is a kind of psychological activity even more except that it is a kind of physiological activity. After the beautiful and happy sexual life is interrupted repeatedly, people will unavoidably produce a kind of annoyed, agitated psychology. It is long, may also form a kind of conditioned reflex, namely each time when interest comes, will afraid those harassing and wrecking will come by chance, the result will leave a hang-up in the heart, can't be devoted all heart and soul to the sexual life afterwards.
In order to prevent this kind of awkwardness, couple can choose appropriate time while passing the sexual life, such as can when the child does not cry usually or when child does not at home. Should also pull out telephone wire or turning off the mobile phone, adjusting into squelch muting,etc. during this time. Certainly, in case interrupted by the harassing and wrecking meeting unexpectedly, don't be angry either, but should comfort each other; If there are conditions that can start anew later, if really there is not mood, then consult for one time and go on again.

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